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    How to Decode His Online Dating Profile

    Your parents always told you not to talk to strangers online and never ever to meet up with someone you met on the web. At one point, this was good advice, but these days with

    At one point, this was good advice, but these days with more than one-third of U.S. marriages beginning with online dating, the stigma of meeting someone online has virtually disappeared.

    Online dating can seem strange and intimidating to the uninitiated online dater. Even if you’re a veteran to the online scene, you still might find you need some online dating tips to sift through the games, the players, and the creeps.

    Ask any girl who’s been in the online dating game for a while, and you’ll surely hear some stories about the guy whose profile seemed too good to be true… because it was.

    Don’t end up on a date with a guy who makes you want to take a fake phone call just to escape. Follow our online dating tips and find love on the internet today!

    Online Dating Tips for the Newbie

    Optimize Your Online Dating Profile

    One-in-five online daters have asked someone to help them set up their online profile and it’s no wonder why. If there’s anything more intimidating than picking the right guy to set up an in-person date with, it’s representing yourself in a way that’s accurate, enticing, and doesn’t scare off the perfect guy.

    1. Your Photos Tell a Story

    What do you like to do with your time? If you go to Comic-Con every year, post a picture of you cosplaying as your favorite superhero. If you’re a workout junkie, you know you have some good workout photos to share.

    As for clothing, wear clothes that represent who you are as a person, not who you want people to see. If you’re not dressed to the 9’s more often than not, don’t post pictures of yourself that suggest you are.

    And don’t overdo the makeup, keep it natural. Remember, you’re trying to convey your REAL self to your potential future partner. Don’t worry about impressing him, just make sure he can see you for who you are. The right guy will appreciate that.

    Finally, don’t post pictures of you with a member of the opposite sex, even if it’s your dad or brother. I know it sounds silly, but it’s a psychological thing. They may be fine with your guy friends, your brothers, or even your exes, but if it’s one of the first things they see from you, it instinctually causes them to feel threatened and could turn them away from your profile.

    If you want to invest in yourself, you can even have a professional service take photos specifically designed to increase your chances of success in online dating.

    2. Stories Build a Personal Connection

    Tell an anecdote about a fun or interesting experience. This makes you memorable and begins to foster a personal connection with the person reading. It also gives an insight into the kinds of things you enjoy.

    3. Describe Yourself in Actions

    Don’t say, “I’m a music-lover.” Talk about a concert experience or an instrument you learned to play. Don’t just say you’re a romantic, describe your perfect date. Anyone can just state a simple fact, but you’ll stick out more in their mind if they can visualize the kind of experiences they could have with you.

    4. Save Something for the Date!

    Don’t over-describe yourself. Nobody wants to hear your whole life story in a dating profile. And more importantly, you don’t want to end up with nothing to talk about on your first date. Awkward!

    5. Don’t Narrow Down Your Type Too Much

    One of the biggest problems a lot of women have with their online profiles is to put too many requirements on their “type.” It may be absolutely essential that your potential partner is religious or that he loves his family, but when you say your guy just has to have abs or that his favorite movie has to be “Enchanted,” you might just be narrowing out a person who you could have a genuine connection with.

    What Does He Really Mean?

    His Screen Name

    Remember that his screen name is probably the first thing he chose for his online profile, so it likely shows more about him as a person than most people realize. If his name is something like StudMuffin69 or Heartbreaker88, don’t play it off as a silly joke. It likely shows more insight into his character than even he meant it to.

    His Pictures

    Those pictures of ribbed abs and veiny biceps might have you itching to send a message, but let’s be honest. Guys who post pictures of themselves shirtless for attention tend to be on the conceited side. And a lot of guys who stay in shape do it just for themselves, they don’t feel the need to seek validation about their bodies on the internet. Alternatively, don’t go for the guy who looks homeless in his profile picture (unless that’s the type you’re looking for. No judgment here.)

    Alternatively, don’t go for the guy who looks homeless in his profile picture (unless that’s the type you’re looking for. No judgment here.)

    How He Wrote His Profile

    Did he fill out his entire profile or were some sections left blank? Does he reply to you in single words or full sentences? Full sentences might indicate he is a more careful and intelligent

    Does he reply to you in single words or full sentences?

    Full sentences might indicate he is a more careful and intelligent person¬†but could also mean he’s more uptight and serious. Single words might indicate a relaxed, laidback attitude, but he could also be lazy or just unintelligent.

    Figure out where your priorities lie in choosing a relationship and understand that you can’t learn everything about a person from a short dating profile. You still have to take a chance and get to know them.

    His Likes

    This should be obvious, but you want to make sure that your likes match up with his. You don’t have to be carbon copies of each other, but if you like to spend your day off hiking through the woods and his day off consists of five hours of Call of Duty at home, then he’s probably not the one.

    Conclusion

    Although there are a lot of weirdos on the internet, don’t get discouraged if your first date doesn’t work out. There are also a lot of good people just like you looking to find something real.

    Stick to these online dating tips and watch out for red flags on your potential date’s profile. Liking the same bands or movies isn’t as important as you might think, but how you like to spend your free time and the things you find passion in are what make a really strong relationship.

    Don’t wait around and miss your shot! Start online dating like a pro and find your Mr. Right today!

Claire Bahn

Author

Claire Bahn is the CEO and Co-Founder of Online Profile Pros (OPP). She founded OPP to help individuals build, maintain and protect their personal brand to help them get the jobs, promotions and dates they desire. She has 15 years experience in branding, public relations and event marketing at start-ups as well as large Fortune 500 companies like Rueters and SAP. Claire has been featured in Forbes, Entrepreneur magazines among others. Online Profile Pros helps executives, entrepreneurs & influencers strategize and create their best personal brand.

https://onlineprofilepros.com/

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