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    Online Dating Tips for Men: Impress Her and Win that Date

    Nearly 50 million people in the U.S. alone have attempted online dating. If there ever was a stigma, it’s gone now.

    Online dating is now second nature for singles, but so many walk away confused, frustrated, and give up altogether.

    It’s easy to fall into a cycle of never-ending online messages, flakes, or worse, get no response at all.

    That’s because online dating is a little different.

    You just don’t sign up for an account and walk away.

    Just like job interviews and meeting your girlfriend’s family, first impressions are everything when it comes to online dating. But you also have to be present, responsive, and master the overall art of online dating communication.

    That means having the right profile bio, photos, attitude, and online chat etiquette.

    So let’s improve your dating outlook right now with online dating tips for men that actually work.

    Draw Her In With A Standout Bio

    Your online dating bio and profile picture are the first two things a woman notices.

    Online dating statistics show that women hope for these top four qualities on a first date:

    • Good personality
    • Attractiveness
    • Humor
    • Education or career ambition

    So when writing your online dating bio, think about what women want from that hypothetical first date with you.

    Now, does this mean you have to write a novel?

    No, it’s actually the exact opposite. You don’t want to bore people to tears, so try and sum up who you are in a few sentences.

    You should also avoid these dating profile mistakes:

    • Including excessive personal information like your credit card info, address, where you work, and your even phone number.
    • Putting down the very idea of online dating. Why should you be embarrassed to date online? That’s dismissive and off-putting.
    • Rambling or including sentences that don’t make sense.
    • Complaining or expressing negativity.
    • Overconfidence or even narcissism.
    • Lying or over-embellishing in your profile.

    Catch Her Eye With Appealing Photos

    The second part of crafting a great first impression with your dating profile are getting the photos just right.

    First, you need to select an attractive profile photo that catches her eye. But is there some secret sauce behind a great profile photo?

    Yes, say the online dating experts!

    For instance, the left side of your face is actually considered more attractive than your right side.

    A study from Wake Forest University found that when comparing right-side and left-side profile photos, photos that favored the left side of the face were perceived more positively than the right side.

    That’s because the left side of your face projects more emotion than your right.

    So what type of emotion should you aim for in your photo?

    According to the University of British Columbia, women are more attracted to photos of men that project a sense of pride. In fact, they prefer this to photos that project happiness.

    For women, pride is perceived as strong and masculine. For someone looking for a long-term partner, pride indicates a man may be more interested in becoming a strong, reliable husband and father.

    You should also include more than just your profile photo.

    eHarmony’s own stats found that members with at least four photos get more messages on average than others.

    How To Master The Gift of Gab Online

    Now that you’ve written your awesome bio and uploaded your photos, it’s time to take that first step to message a potential date.

    Now, you want to pick the right person to message.

    64% of online daters believe common interests is an important quality in a significant other, so let’s start with that.

    When you find a match, reference one of your shared common interests in your initial message. You score double brownie points here, because not only do you connect with a common interest, but you show you’re genuinely interested in her profile too.

    Not only do you want to impress with that first message, but most importantly, you want her to respond back to you. So don’t hesitate to end your message with a question. For instance, if her profile says she loves Sci-Fi, feel free to ask her if she’s seen that new Sci-Fi film that’s in theaters or what she thinks of your favorite Sci-Fi series.

    So tapping into common interests is a surefire way to start a free-flowing conversation. But don’t overdo it with that first message. Like your bio, you don’t want to overwhelm potential dates with too much information, so just a few sentences for that first message in fine.

    Likewise, avoid turning into Mr. doom and gloom with your first conversation. A positive attitude is key for traversing the world of online dating.

    If she doesn’t respond right away, don’t let it get you down. Women on dating sites are inundated with messages from guys, which is all the more reason to stand out by referencing shared interests.

    If a woman doesn’t respond at all, chin up! Don’t let it get you down and do not send a negative message under any circumstances.

    Online Dating Tips For Men: How To Finally Ask Her Out

    Now it’s time to bite the bullet and actually meet one of these girls in person.

    Typically, the responsibility of initiating that first meet up will land with you, the guy.

    But don’t ask her out in that first message. That’s creepy. Instead, wait after a few messages to initiate or when it’s clear the two of you are comfortable with each other.

    That’s why it’s so important to build up a good rapport and conversational flow first. It’ll make the first date feel more natural and less forced.

    After your first date, don’t abandon your online communications either. It’s important to be present and responsive, otherwise, you may come across as aloof or disinterested in a second date.

    So are you ready to change your luck with online dating?

    Now, go back to the drawing board with these online dating tips for men so you can improve your profile, communication, and confidence to land that first and second date.

Claire Bahn

Author

Claire Bahn is the CEO and Co-Founder of Online Profile Pros (OPP). She founded OPP to help individuals build, maintain and protect their personal brand to help them get the jobs, promotions and dates they desire. She has 15 years experience in branding, public relations and event marketing at start-ups as well as large Fortune 500 companies like Rueters and SAP. Claire has been featured in Forbes, Entrepreneur magazines among others. Online Profile Pros helps executives, entrepreneurs & influencers strategize and create their best personal brand.

https://onlineprofilepros.com/

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